Just made a new YouTube video (finally not that anyone but me cares xD) about the California “yes means yes” law that was recently unanimously approved by senate.
My exact sentiments! From personal experience, women are turned off by guys who aren’t very self-assured at all when they constantly have to seek permission and approval. Universally, women are attracted to confidence and part of it is being somewhat daring and taking certain risks. If you don’t want someone to kiss you, you back off. If you don’t want someone to touch you, you slide their hand away. Whenever I fail any of these attempts being the awkward fuck I am, I just simply apologise and move on.
Part of me deep down suspects this is some kinda hairy lesbian radfem’s attempt to take all the passion out of heterosexual sex by forcing the man to kill the mood by having to ask every few seconds “is it ok if I do this?” So the woman’s like “ugh, I’ve already said yes. But you know what? Fuck it now, I’m not into it anymore.”
The first time I had sex with my boyfriend was my first time. I was already nervous enough. So I needed him to be taking the charge and making the moves. It probably wouldn’t have been that great if he asked for my okay every ten seconds. That would have made me more nervous and kind of annoyed
If I had a guy do this to me, he’d be kicked outta bed for following the feminazi BS.
I wanna man, not a submissive dog!
I’d personally preferred being asked, not every 5 seconds, but within reason. If it’s something he feels I may not like it.